More and more, we are going online to find people we gel with and want to share either a little bit of fun, or our futures.

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Of course, a relationship doesn’t happen because he’s already in her friendzone.

Even if she does accept him on a date and the relationship doesn’t work out, her church girlfriends would not feel right dating him because “you don’t date your friend’s ex’s”.

Given this environment, the man’s strategy is to become friends with the woman he’s interested in and hope that she will become interested in him romantically.

He’s going to treat her well, because he likes her a lot.

In fact, a recent study found that 22% — that's over 1 in 5 people — in relationships met their partner online.

Online dating is most common in people in their 50s and 60s and those in their late teens and twenties.

Finally, it’s a problem that’s disappointing many of the young Christian women in our lives. But somewhere among books like I Kissed Dating Goodbye, a lack of relationship role models and trying to navigate the minefield that is modern dating, something changed for our generation. Chances are pretty good that all of these women know each other and fellowship on a regular basis.

A number of problematic attitudes crept into Christian culture. Chances are also pretty high that they share stories and gossip with each other.

Quite simply, Christian women are very hostile to men when it comes to romantic interest. Still, none of the them addressed the attraction factor or the poor quality of mates to choose from generally speaking.