But just because we are scared of it doesn’t mean we don’t want it.

Take it easy and let him decide when he is ready to commit.

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How can you turn an awkward first date with the man of your dreams into the relationship you’ve dreamed of?

But exactly how do you find out without asking him outright and getting a look like you’ve just asked him to marry you?

Of course, there are men out there that will disagree but the vast majority of us are scared stiff of the future.

A week in advance, or possibly a month, is usually as far as we are willing to commit after a few weeks or even months of dating.

If you don’t call, he’ll start to panic and think that you have a life that doesn’t revolve around him.

However, if he isn’t calling or answering at all, then you might need to consider it’s a sign he’s not into you.

But do you really want a guy you just met to see all those old photos you’ve been tagged in?

Do you really want him to know why your boss upset you so much today or how much weight you want to lose this year?

Think of Homer’s odyssey (not Simpson), Dr Richard Kimble’s quest to find the one armed man in the Fugitive, or attempting to join the SAS.