Sometimes when we reach a red light, my girlfriend will tug on my arm to get me to turn, then get on her toes and pull me in for a kiss. No one's forcing her to do itit just lets me know that she likes me. If you know what you want, be upfront rather than expecting us to read between the lines and getting disappointed later.It's a really nice, unprompted way to be reminded that she cares." Alex R."Please eat food at restaurants! It's a social thing." John S."Don't underestimate the power of a compliment. It's frustrating when women get mad at us about that!

"Don't get upset if it takes us a while to text you back.

Sometimes we just have other things going on at the time, or we don't want to seem too overeager.

Having a sense of humor about it can also make it easier and more fruitful. Make sure to be constructive and instructive." —Dan T." title="" src="data:image/gif;base64, R0l GODlh AQABAIAAAAAAAP///y H5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://hips.hearstapps.com/cos.h-cdn.co/assets/cm/14/25/539fc0a10683b_-_cos-12-couple-lgn-msc.jpg?

resize=768:*" /"Communication about sex is really important.

We all like to see excellence and, even more so, be around it. Guys are just as tired of going out to dinner over and over again as women are.

If you're great at something and can speak about it with confidence, it makes other people want to be around you and can be a big turn on." Dom S."It's a turnoff for me when a girl pretends to like something just because I like it. A woman who suggests awesome date activities is one a guy can really appreciate, and it's nice to have something else to talk about other than yourselves and the food." Jason M."When it comes to sex, mix it up.

But, instead, we are witnessing a bizarre situation where guys can pick whoever they want, but they choose not to.

Some guys say they don’t want to be tied down, others say their career takes priority, and most say they “just want to have fun”.

The article received some thoughtful comments and posts, both here, and on the HG Facebook page.

The article was focused on the perspective of women, because that is all that been written about lately, but one comment that appeared frequently was: “What about the men?

Sometimes I'll text before I jump on a subway home and am stuck underground for an hour." —Alex S."It's really attractive when a girl takes initiative in bed; a guy won't think any less of you.