This is exactly what my sisters in Christ have been carefully instructed not to do. If girls should consider their brothers in Christ, guys should consider their sisters in Christ. For me to be modest I would have needed to wear looser shirts that I didn’t think looked as good on me. And making that tough decision would have made me much more appreciative and considerate of my sisters in Christ.When we apply modesty standards across the board it does two things: When I think about my clothing choices in college it simultaneously convicts me of immodesty and helps me understand the struggle girls face trying to be modest. Now, if I’ve learned anything from the original Modesty Survey it’s that these discussions can be dangerous.

Hank came through the door, pushing a heavy metal table mounted on wheels.

Hank took the opportunity to cup one of her tits in his meaty hand. She was quickly strapped down, her hands over her head, her ankles bound to the lower end of the metal table, far apart, so that her thighs gaped open.

” Hammer reached over and twisted a dial in the base of the rod.

Her lithe young body twisted and writhed on the tabletop.

It’s that time of year when the Internet explodes with articles and videos intending to stem the tide of Christian girls headed to the beach or pool wearing “itsy bitsy teenie weenie yellow polka dot bikinis.” Of course, many of these resources are valuable.

Some of them even offer new insights into the modesty discussion — but even the best of them miss about half the population, and by “half-the-population” I mean the half that wears low-rise swim trunks to the pool. Now in previous years this omission might have been lost on me.

For one thing, talking about modesty and lust in the same article can imply that immodesty lust, which is a destructive lie. The goal of modesty (and my goal in starting this conversation) is to honor God with our bodies, not because they are dirty or shameful, but because they are glorious and holy.

No man (or woman) was ever forced to lust by another person’s outfit. To paraphrase Jessica Rey, modesty is not about covering up what’s bad, but about revealing dignity.

“Unless you agree to give your precious little body to whomever I say.” “No! So far the only pain she felt was from the leather straps cutting into her wrists and ankles.

She writhed and twisted on the table, but the rod went in easily.

If it is important for women, why the silence about men? Pretty sure Potiphar’s wife wasn’t the last woman to “cast her eyes” on a guy and lust after his “handsome form and appearance” (Gen. But by our silence we send the message that modesty is a female issue and lust is a male issue.