RELATED: Taylor Swift Sends a Fan Flowers and a Note For Graduation When her romance to Tom Hiddleston was blasted across the front pages of publications around the world, things kind of hit the fan.With Joe, she's being that much more private and cautious about who in her inner circle is clued into the romance.

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Making a rare public appearance together, the couple was attended the Z100 Jingle Ball in New York City and had everyone around them swooning over their sweet romance.

Not only were they spotted dancing and singing along at the show—to none other than Tay's bestie Ed Sheeran—but they were even seen holding hands and sneaking in a kiss at one point.

Case in point: She and Alwyn have been flying under the radar for months in the U. DON'T Make Plans on the Fourth of July: You know she throws a massive party DO Accept Her Invitation to Go Antique Shopping: She's a big fan of collectibles.

DON'T Think Your Indie Record Is Cooler Than Hers: Because she straight up tells you so in "Never Ever Getting Back Together" ( Jake Gyllenhaal).

But even more important than that, we're pretty sure he was rocking one of her of us fall a little bit in love with him."Joe is extremely supportive and her No.1 fan," an insider told us.

"He plans to go on tour with her when he can and support her at her shows."The source continued, "Things are going great between them.

Nobody has a clue they've been walked past a music superstar – not even her new neighbors." Someone who is supposedly one of the "Bad Blood" singer's close pals revealed, "This isn't a new couple alert or a secret relationship – the only people this has been a secret to is the media because all of us, Taylor and Joe's closest friends and their families, were aware they have been together for several months and have known each other for a long time.

After her 1989 tour and all the attention Taylor received, she learned she had to be more protective of her personal life and she and Joe decided early on to keep their private life private." RELATED: Katy Perry Is Reportedly Getting Revenge on Taylor Swift Well, it looks like the cat is out of the bag!

A source told , "Taylor has flown in via private jets and her security has made it a military-like mission to prevent her from being seen.