Bird Lady: I’m just afraid if I do trust someone, I’ll get my heart broken. Ok, Gentlemen, we got a little deep here this time, I hope you enjoyed and talk to you next time.

Through my circle of friends and single moms I meet through this blog, I often hear cries of horror about the thought of single mom dating. What man in his right mind would date someone with so much baggage? People are attracted to these single-mom qualities in a real, meaningful way. Now, I have reached many milestones in my career, relationships, and inner life. Listen: Other ways to listen: i Tunes ♦ Stitcher ♦ Tune In ♦ Sound Cloud ♦ Google Play Nothing breaks my heart more than a woman who cannot be without a man.

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I mean, look at Hugh Hefner, he’s a million and one years old and he’s happy right?

But if you really look at a player, you’ll see someone who has gotten hurt in the past.

But here is the dialogue which I think is important because it breaks down what it feels like to close yourself off to love. Bird Lady: A person’s heart and feelings are very different from skates. If you won’t use your heart, who cares if it gets broken? One day he was leaving work and put on a leather jacket, a biker jacket and I talked to him.

Bird Lady: The man I loved fell out of love with me. When the chance to be loved came along again, I ran away from it. Kevin: No offense, but that seems like sort of a dumb thing to do. If you just keep it to yourself, maybe it’ll be like my rollerblades. I found out that he never got married, and never had kids and regretted it.

My single-mom body is a wreck and I haven’t been on a date in 15 years! Confidence, a full heart, and life experience all equals being a richer, fuller person. My longest friendships were still forming, and I was still figuring out what was most important to me. Women with kids have a whole lot of responsibilities. Time is precious, and efficient moms know that the best way to spend time with a man is truly enjoying a really, really great one.

I’ve spent the past three years dating as a single mom – including a year-long relationship—and let me tell you something: there is no better time than to date than as a single mom. When I was dating in my twenties, I was looking for a husband with a healthy set of testicles with which to sire children. You survived that, and not only are you better for it – you’re sexier for it. Age and childbearing has allowed you to enjoy your body for all it has to offer. When I met my husband in my mid-twenties, I was still struggling to make my way professionally. When we do have time for boyfriends, we make the very most of it. There is less temptation to piddle away hours waiting on losers to commit just because you’re lonely.Celebrity players, such as George Clooney and Leonardo Di Caprio, seem to have it all.Good looks, money and a bevy of babes at their beck and call.It is normal to feel sad and lonely if you don’t have a boy- or girlfriend.(It can also feel horny, but that is a slightly different topic — don’t get those confused!Like a good looking guy who can walk up to the hottest girl in the bar and sweet talk his way into her bedroom.